5 Ways to Make Him Notice You Without Saying a Word 🤫

Subtle cues to attract men, body language tips.

Nov 12, 2024

GET THAT MAN MONDAY (Attraction and Building Interest)

5 Ways to Make Him Notice You Without Saying a Word

NEWS FLASH LADIES! We men are very simplistic creatures. When it comes to attraction, sometimes the most potent gestures are the ones that don’t need words.

The skills I will deliver below are the cornerstone of fundamental attraction that anybody can implement RIGHT NOW TODAY with that man they want to GET.

Body language and subtle cues often say more than any conversation ever could.

Here’s a breakdown of five proven ways to capture his attention—without uttering a single word.

1. Let Your Eyes Do the Talking 👀👀👀

Eye contact is one of the most vital nonverbal signals of attraction. It conveys confidence, warmth, and interest—all without saying a word. If you’re looking to catch his eye:

Try locking eyes with him briefly, then looking away. This creates a sense of intrigue and mystery, which he will instinctively follow up on.

Hold his gaze a second longer than usual when you’re looking his way. It shows that you’re present and attentive without overwhelming him. This drives us guys CRAZY.

Smile softly when your eyes meet. This combination is inviting and adds a welcoming warmth to the interaction. If you want a level 2 tip for this, be sure to move your hair behind your ear, unassuming when your eyes meet. Next-level guy butterflies right there.

Pro tip: Try the “triangle gaze”—look at one eye, then the other, and finish by glancing at his lips. It’s subtle and flirtatious and will definitely get his attention.

2. Use Open Body Language 🤗🤗🤗

The image you put forth will tell that man a lot about your intentions and what you mean even before you say a word.

Body language is vital; knowing how to use it early will be extremely helpful.

Closed-off body language can make you seem unapproachable, while open body language invites people to engage with you.

Keep your shoulders relaxed and face your body in his direction.

Avoid crossing your arms, as this can seem defensive. Instead, keep them open or rest them naturally by your side.

Angle your torso toward him when he’s nearby. This small move signals that you’re open and interested.

Pro tip: Mirroring his posture (leaning slightly forward if he does or matching his gestures) is a natural way to build rapport and increase his comfort around you.

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A confident walk can grab attention from across the room, creating a lasting impression. Confidence is magnetic, and a purposeful walk instantly communicates self-assurance.

Stand up straight, roll your shoulders back, and keep your chin parallel to the floor.

Take deliberate, even steps. Rushing can make you seem anxious, while slow, intentional steps reflect poise.

Keep your hands relaxed at your sides, swinging them naturally. Avoid fidgeting, which can show nervousness.

Pro tip: Think of each step as its own moment. When you slow down your pace just a bit, you create a presence that’s hard to ignore.

4. Use Light Touch to Create Connection 👉👈

When done right, physical touch can convey warmth and create a subtle connection. The goal here is to be gentle and casual—small touches that feel natural and friendly.

Lightly brush his arm when you walk past him or touch his shoulder briefly when you laugh at a joke. These small touches increase feelings of closeness.
If you’re sitting close, lightly tapping his hand to emphasize a point can create a connection without crossing any boundaries.

Pro tip: If you’re in conversation with a group, touching his arm or shoulder while speaking adds a touch of exclusivity, showing that you’re really comfortable around him.

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5. Smile, Genuinely and Often 😁😁😁

Smiling is an easy and effective way to make anyone feel welcome and at ease. A genuine smile makes you appear friendly, open, and warm—all qualities that draw people in.

Aim for a soft, natural smile. Forced or exaggerated smiles can seem insincere, so just relax and smile whenever you feel comfortable.

Smiling when you look at him signals interest and invites him to approach you.

Don’t hesitate to laugh and show you’re having a good time. Happiness and confidence are incredibly attractive.

Pro tip: Practice your smile in the mirror to find the one that feels most genuine to you. Smiling with your eyes and mouth (what some call the “Duchenne smile”) conveys genuine warmth.

To Summarize:

You can make a lasting impression without saying a word using these subtle cues. The beauty of nonverbal attraction is its ability to communicate genuine interest in an effortless and intriguing way. So next time he’s around, try out one (or all!) of these techniques to catch his eye—and let your body language do the talking.

Let us know if these work for you!

What’s Next:

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